Domina Circle

Welcome to Domina Circle

Had a moment in a scene that you’re still thinking about? Found your way through a tricky negotiation? Tried something new and want to talk it through? Or had a win that only another Domme would really appreciate?

Bring it to Domina Circle.

Domina Circle is a casual peer-support group for femmes and thems who take on a Dominant role. It’s a space to talk about your play, your dynamics, the things that are challenging you, and the things that are going brilliantly — with people who actually get it.

Come along to talk through something difficult, swap ideas, ask questions, celebrate a win, or simply listen to how someone else approaches their dynamic. Maybe you’re dealing with a tricky negotiation, figuring out how to handle a particular situation, questioning something that happened in a scene, or just wondering, “Is this a thing other Dommes deal with too?”

Professional and lifestyle Dominants are welcome, as are people in female-led relationships and Switches who occupy the Dominant role.

You don’t need years of experience. You don’t need a polished story. And you definitely don’t need to have all the answers.

This is peer support. We’re here to learn from each other, share what we’ve learned, offer perspective, and occasionally realise that someone else has been through exactly the same weird shit.

Zoe Demure will host and help guide the conversation at Studio of Secrets, but Domina Circle isn’t a class or a workshop — the good stuff comes from the room. Different experiences, honest questions, practical suggestions, shared stories and the simple relief of being able to talk openly with other Dominants.

Who is it for?
Domina Circle is for femmes and thems who occupy a Top/Dominant role.

That includes FemDoms, ThemDoms, Switches who Top, professional Dominants, lifestyle Dominants, and leaders in female-led relationships.

It’s deliberately a space for Dominant women and non-binary Dominants to support one another.

Male Dominants and submissives, we love you — but this particular circle isn't for you.

The important stuff
We want Domina Circle to be a place where people can be honest, ask awkward questions, talk about difficult experiences and share things they might not feel comfortable discussing elsewhere. So we have a few non-negotiables:

Confidentiality
What is discussed in the room stays in the room. Don’t take someone else’s stories outside with you.

Privacy
Who chooses to attend is their business. We don't gossip about attendance or share who was there.

Respect
You don't have to agree with someone. You don't have to like their approach. You do have to treat them — and their experience — with respect.

Kindness
We’re here to support each other, not compete with each other. Ask questions in good faith, offer advice when it’s wanted, and assume there’s a human being on the other side of the conversation.

Basically: lead with kindness. Don’t be a dick. You’ll be fine.

Domina Circle will begin as a four-session pilot program, meeting every fortnight at Studio of Secrets.

The time includes a half hour break after the first hour.

If the circle is well received and people want it to continue, the intention is to bring Domina Circle back as an ongoing program next year.

For now, we're bringing a roomful of Dominants together and seeing what happens.