ASSFest S25 Rim | The Erotic Mother

*** An ASSFEST S25 Rim event - see here for ALL the juicy details! ***

Reclaiming your sexual self in Modern Motherhood.

Motherhood can feel like the end of our erotic selves, but I see it as the ultimate invitation to reclaim, re-shape and deepen our relationship to one of the most ancient parts of our humanity.

Somewhere between the sleepless nights, the school drop-offs, and the never-ending to-do lists, many mothers feel like their sensuality has been buried under a weight of responsibility and the mental load of modern life! – and in some ways it's true!

It’s no secret that the passion, the pleasure, the aliveness can feel hard to find during the bustle of daily life.

So, more importantly I ask the question - how do we get it back? Remember what's been forgotten, reclaim what's been,

This 2hr workshop is a gentle call to wake up the part of you that still aches to feel deeply, to move with desire, to let Eros lead—not just in the bedroom, but in the way we breathe, parent, love, and exist in your own skin.

Eros isn’t just about sex. It’s life force, creativity, vitality. It’s the hum of aliveness that makes you more present, more magnetic, and more deeply connected to yourself and those you love.

When you have greater access to your erotic current, stress decreases, libido rises naturally, and the mundane moments of motherhood begin to feel infused with something richer, something deeper, something uniquely yours.

In this workshop, we’ll explore:

🔥 How to reconnect with your sensual body after years of putting others first

🔥 The link between Eros and stress relief (yes, pleasure can be an antidote to stress)

🔥 How to convene with your erotic self in everyday life—not just in the bedroom

🔥 Practical tools for increasing libido and feeling more at home in your erotic body

🔥 The revolutionary act of allowing pleasure into your life as a mother

This is not about performing, tolerating, pushing or forcing.

It’s a gentle turn towards that part of you that longs to be seen, integrated, held and uplifted. The part of you who knows that the erotic is power and your body’s wisdom holds the keys you’ve likely been searching for.

Are you ready to meet her and have some fun at the same time?

🍑 LOGISTICS 🍑

TICKETING

GENERAL ADMISSION $80 / IMMERSION ATTENDEES $65

This event is part of the ASSFEST S25 Rim Festival. Attendees of the ASSFEST S25 Immersion Weekend receive discounted tickets to this and other events between the 29th of August and the 7th of September. Explore our schedule here!

>>> WEEKEND IMMERSION 06.09 + 07.09 TICKETS <<<

ZipPay & AfterPay are available!

VENUE & ACCESSIBILITY

10AM - 1PM THURSDAY 4TH OF SEPTEMBER | A SPACE IN SYDNEY

There is a steep flight of stairs with 2 turns up into the workshop space of the venue, please reach out to us if this may be of concern to you so that we can provide more information! Inside the venue there are 3 steps leading down to the hallway to the kitchen area, and another 3 steps leading down into the kitchen space which leads to the bathroom. 

TRANSPORT & PARKING

The venue is an few minutes walk from both buses and trams. There is limited untimed parking in the area. If you are a ticket holder and require a bit more detail on the transport options please reach out!

INCLUSIVITY & LIMITATIONS

As well as sex positivity, we love diversity & all curious & respectful 18+ humans are welcome.

*** THIS IS AN 18+ EVENT - YOU WILL BE REQUIRED TO DISPLAY A VALID PHOTO ID ON THE DAY TO GAIN ENTRY ***

🍑 ABOUT TAMICA WILDER 🍑

Tamica Wilder is a Byron-based somatic sexologist, multi-qualified therapist, author, and speaker with over 20 years of experience in transformational facilitation and group work.

Her approach combines compassion, embodied wisdom, and a deep understanding of human sexuality, making her a highly sought-after facilitator in both private and group settings.

Tamica's purpose is to challenge and transform prevailing cultural narratives about sex, intimacy, and pleasure, advocating for our truly liberated self in all aspects of live, love, community, body and beyond.

🍑 ABOUT THE AUSTRALIAN SCHOOL OF SEXUALITY 🍑

The Australian School of Sexuality (ASS) is a collective of affiliated sex educators who've teamed up to support each other & increase public accessibility to sexuality education spaces. Please visit our website for a detailed look at our hosts, workshops & vision!

We welcome all feedback, questions & thoughts! Please get in touch via email.

Huge gratitude to our wonderful sponsors for believing in the possibilities of ASS! Assembly Four, Tryst Link & Demasque Magazine.