He’s the standard Western male – pretty basic, you know?” This is how a female client described her long-term partner to me, blaming him for their “repetitive and dull” sex life. But neither of them had given him space to explore outside the indeed basic parameters given for how a heterosexual cisgender man should be. When they did… Fireworks.

I’ve been working with male clients for five years, and was a striptease artist for over a decade, talking to hundreds of men from all walks of life every week.

In this online presentation I will address the biggest concerns which bring heterosexual men to coaching.

“Sex in my relationship has got boring. How can I make it more interesting?”
“My penis isn’t big enough / hard enough / I don’t last long enough”
“She almost always says no – how can I make her want it more?”

Plus:

Do you have ‘delivery boy syndrome’?
Arousal science you NEED to know (for yourself and her)
What IS porn, actually (it’s not what you think…)?
Fantasies, kinks and more
Age-proofing your sex life

Packed with real-life examples from my clients* and full of my wisdom as a coach… and as a woman with three decades of sexual experience.

This presentation is designed for you if you are a cisgender heterosexual man wanting to boost your sexual intelligence, empathy and skills as a lover – both for her pleasure and your own. There will be content relevant to both long term relationships and casual play (please note this is not a dating/pick-up skills workshop). Couples and women also welcome, to expand your understanding of the potentials of heterosexual masculinity.

INCLUDED FOR ALL TICKET-HOLDERS: free access to my workshop on consent.

A recording of the workshop (not the Q&A) will be accessible to ticket-holders for two weeks afterwards.

Find out more about Ruth in her Host Description and at ruthramsay.com

See Ruth's TEDx talk, 'Revamp Your Sex Life In Six Minutes', by clicking here.

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*Examples shared with consent