Beyond IFS Small Consult Group - Lilac
Description
This Beyond IFS consultation group of 5 people will meet with Bob for 90 minutes, for 6 sessions between September 16 and December 9.
Groups also meet with their cohort in the weeks between these sessions to discuss this work, or do suggested exercises that there will not be time for in the groups sessions. These meetings also develop supportive peer-group communities.
Registration is not transferable and is non-refundable, so please check your local dates and times before checkout, and add the dates to your calendar as soon as you register.
Meeting Dates
Wednesdays - 4 - 5.30 PM Pacific Time
Sept 16 & 30
Oct 14 & 28
Nov 11
Dec 9
Check your local times before you choose to register. No transfers or refunds:
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More Details
These groups will emphasize working with unattached burdens and Guides and the spiritual dimensions of working to heal trauma.
The initial session will be general in focus, and sessions 2 - 6 will each focus on one participant for 50 minutes to 1 hour, followed by ≈30 minutes of discussion and/or didactic.
Each participant chooses how to use their own session to best serve their need: eg, demos, case consultations, bringing a client to the session, or something else.
The first session will not be recorded.
You may record your own session on your local computer and share with others if you wish. Many of the supervision questions that people would like to bring to Bob may be answered in your peer-group meetings, and some cohorts still continue to meet for years after the formal consultation group is over.
FAQs
- Do I have to share my contact information with the group?
As group members meet together between sessions with Bob, the email addresses of the group members will be shared before the first meeting.
Your cohort will become a valuable resource to you, and many groups continue to meet with their cohort long after these sessions are completed.
- How will I find the Zoom link for the meetings?
The Zoom link for the sessions will be sent 24 - 48 hours before the first meeting to the email address used for Eventbrite registration. Reminders will NOT be sent after the first meeting. Please add all the meetings to your calendar when you register.
Emails will come from registration@robertfalconer.us, so please add this address to your contacts to help ensure delivery.
- Will I get meeting reminders?
Reminders will NOT be sent after the first meeting.
Please add all the meetings to your calendar when you register.
The Zoom link and details will be sent to the email address you use in Humanitiz when purchasing your place. All meetings will use the same Zoom link.
- What if I can't make it to one of the meetings?
Please only register for a group if you're calendar is clear for all the sessions. Of course, things can happen, and if you can't make it, advise your group ASAP.
The first session will not be recorded.
Group members may record their own session and may choose to share it with others who were not present.
The Others Within Us

The Others Within Us: Internal Family Systems, Porous Mind, and Spirit Possession
When an Internal Family Systems (IFS) client revealed a lifelong presence in her mind that was clearly not one of her parts, Bob was drawn into a question that would reshape his understanding of healing, consciousness, and the human mind. That encounter launched a decade-long exploration of the "others within us"—unattached burdens, spiritual presences, guides, and related experiences—and how cultures around the world have understood and worked with them for centuries. What Bob discovered challenges the Western assumption that the mind is a closed, isolated system. Instead, it points toward a more interconnected understanding of human experience—one that has profound implications for trauma, healing, and our sense of belonging. By expanding how we understand the mind, this work offers new possibilities for relieving suffering and addressing the deep feelings of alienation and isolation that so many people carry.
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