Fundamentals of Authentic Relating US2
Event description
Course Description
Fundamentals of Authentic Relating is a 7 session online series exploring and practicing the foundational aspects of three major movements of attention within relating.
These three movements, which underpin all connection and intimacy, are that of: Listening, Expressing and Attuning.
Understanding these three movements, and developing the skill sets within each one, leads to an ever-increasing refinement of one's ability and capacity to create and maintain connection in any context.
Through developing this level of skill with others, we begin setting the stage for deep exploration of the mystery, embodied spontaneous ritual and archetypical invocations, and organismic consciousness. These expanded practices are taught through collective field work known as Circling.
This course is a practice heavy, experiential dive into somewhat simple, yet infinitely deep, aspects of relating. Understanding and practicing the skills contained in this course leads to an expansion in “relational intelligence”, the awareness of and ability to shape and direct attention within human interaction.
The development of this intelligence creates possibilities of increased experiences of intimacy, ability to provide emotional support for others, clarity in expressing desires and boundaries, enhanced negotiation and conflict resolution capacities, and the welcoming forward of more of the unique essence of yourself and those with whom you connect.
Course Objectives
The following skills are taught, practiced and developed throughout the duration of the course:
Listening
- Receptive listening :: embodying the principles of presence, appreciation, non-judgment and spaciousness
- Reflective listening :: how to validate and honour another's experience, providing them with the opportunity for deeper insight into self
- Active listening :: utilising curiosity as a vehicle of navigation into the infinite universe of another
Expressing
- Vulnerability :: expression connected to the intensity of authentic truth
- Desire :: the driving force of who and what we are in the world
- Boundaries :: how the space between us facilitates genuine connection
Attuning
- Immediacy :: bringing shared presence to present the moment
- Impact :: creating circuits of connection through acknowledging the impact of another’s expression within oneself
- Resonance :: dropping into the experience of interpersonal harmony
Course Breakdown
The course takes place over 7 Mondays from February 1st to March 15th at 4.30-6.30pm PDT, 7.30-9.30pm EDT, (11.30am-1.30pm Tuesdays AEDT) with "Office Hours" calls occurring Wednesday afternoon/evenings North America time, Thursday mornings Australia time.
Session 1 :: Monday February 1st :: Embodied Relating
We will explore the powerful synergy between the skill of receptive listening and the expression of vulnerability, while setting up a safe group container for the course.
Session 2 :: Monday February 8th :: Reflection
Developing this listening skill leads to a magical ability to really have others feel seen and heard in your presence. There is an entire world of subtlety available to discover in this skill.
Session 3 :: Monday February 15th :: Curiosity
Curiosity is a relational navigational capacity that, when articulated with finesse, leads others to reveal their depths, creating the possibility of beautiful bonding experiences.
Session 4 :: Monday February 22nd :: Desire
How desire is the guiding force of our innate expression of unique essence into this reality.
Session 5 :: Monday March 1st :: Boundaries
The function of boundaries in moderating, mediating and modulating the act of relating and the process of relationship in life.
Session 6 :: Monday March 8th :: Attunement
Entering the “we” space, the intersubjective field that lies between us as humans. Stepping into this field with others, even for a moment, can feel profoundly nourishing, expansive and transformative.
Session 7 :: Monday March 15th :: Closing Circle
The nature of this course creates a deeply intimate group space between the participants. This last session is an opportunity to consciously and safely step out of this shared field while reflecting on the learnings, insights and experiences that have occurred.
Course Inclusions and Expectations
- Pre-recorded lecture series for each module of the course
- 7 x online "Relational Dojo" practice sessions using the Zoom platform
- 6 x optional "Office Hours" Q&A discussions on the content
- Lifetime access to a growing community of like-minded participants eager to grow and learn
- 15-45 minutes practice ‘homework’ per week within the community
- Lifetime free access to evolving resources, including practice manual, videos and ongoing refresher classes
- Recordings of Office Hours Q&A sessions
About the Facilitator
I'm Damien. I'm the head facilitator and founder of the work of Evolutionary Relating.
I have been facilitating and teaching groups in intersubjective and relational practices for 10 years now. I have a pretty diverse background, curious mind and seem to be a natural teacher and facilitator. I enjoy creating safe and transformational group containers, and imparting complex knowledge in a way that is easy to grasp.
I'm motivated to offer this work out of a love for planet earth and a deep, compelling desire to contribute to human evolution.
