This one's for you brothers! If you've found yourself looking around for a deeper sense of brotherhood in your life, maybe a bit more connection beyond the mundane, this is for you. Welcome, haere mai

In this men's only space, you'll be thoughtfully led into meaningful conversations with people from across the community.
Whatever your motivation, come and join us for some soul-hugging, heart-growing, mind-elevating connection. We aim to have you leaving with a grin.

About This Event

This is not your average gathering! This is a space where small talk is put aside and meaningful curiosity give you street cred. We bring the questions and the snacks, you bring the open mind and curious heart. This is a thoughtfully curated experience for introverts and extroverts alike. If you're a human and want to feel like you matter, this is the place for you.

Don't worry, you won't have to jump into the deep end straight away. We'll lay out a few party guidelines for the evening and ease you into the conversation with some cool connection games.

Need a break from the buzz? There's a quiet zone when you want some down time, and we'll have experienced Connectors keeping an eye out for anyone who needs a buddy.

Timing
- 6:15 – 6:30 Doors open
- 6:30 – 6:45 Opening and mindfulness
- 6:45 – 8:15 Connection games and fun
- 8:15 – 8:30 Gratitude exchange and closing ritual

What's Included
· Life-zhuzhing connection
· Fabulous finger food + drinks (non-alcoholic)

FAQ
· What should I bring?
Curiosity, kindness, and an open heart.

· Do I need to print my ticket?
Nope, the email verification is enough

· What if I'm an introvert who hates parties?
No sweat! We've tailored this evening to make you feel like you belong, whether you love all-night ragers or quiet corners. We'll be keeping a special eye out for folks who might be feeling awkward. The whole point of this event is meaningful connection, and we'll do our best to make sure you get it!

· What if I'm an extrovert who's a pro at this connection stuff?
Fabulous! The real magic happens when we've got a beautiful blend of personalities and connection styles.

· Do I need to register or do you accept walk-ins on the day of the event?
Please get your ticket in advance. We don't make sales at the door.
We want you to have an experience that feels rich and meaningful, so we limit the number of attendees to make it an intimate gathering. This also allows us to reduce the time spent on check-in and jump right into the juicy stuff!

· What's the difference between waged, unwaged, and koha?
Waged tickets are for folks who are employed, and unwaged tickets are for students and those who aren't working full-time. You can also contribute a koha amount so we can provide tickets to people who wouldn't be able to attend otherwise. The experience is the same regardless of your ticket type; we just want it to be accessible for everyone.

· What if I can't afford a ticket?
Drop us a line and we'll make it happen.

· When should I arrive?
Doors open at 6:15. Please arrive in plenty of time to grab a beverage, get settled, and be ready to kick things off by 6:45. It's important to attend at the beginning when we set the stage for the evening.

Kind Words

“I just want to say that I have NEVER attended an event that was that inspiring!”

"Thank you for an incredible evening! Loved everything about it and feeling so grateful to be part of the magic."

"I absolutely LOVED it! I've been telling people about it since the event. It was a very unique event and completely achieved the goal of being able to connect at a deeper level."

"I loved the scientific explanation of the exercises and what happened in the body with what we were doing. I could feel a lot of love and preparation and dedication behind the experience. The setting, the areas, and the delicious snacks made me feel comfortable and well looked after."

"Amazing evening! Still feeling so connected."

Can't wait to connect with you!

Heartbeat: Connecting men in Ōtautahi Christchurch

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Ticket to connect (Waged) ticket

Ticket to connect (Unwaged) ticket

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