Mission
statement: I create a world of connection by living authentically and
vulnerably
These mission
statements were revealed at a mens training weekend in late 2023.
They are now a compass and accountability for how I am showing up in
the world.
About 5 years ago in relationship:
Her:
Sitting nervously, going out on an emotional limb….”I want a
deeper connection”
Me: Irritated, fearful and feeling
incompetent “What the hell are you talking about?
I was
insecure, reactive, shallow and short fused. I was playful and
humorous yet had little understanding of healthy masculinity and how
to dance with the feminine. Polarity, vulnerability and connection
were unfamiliar and intimidating words.
That moment of
vulnerability for her was crushed, and that long term relationship
ended a year or so later. She left. Under-valued, unloved and wounded
from my inability to communicate, listen and my emotional absence.
Between that time and now I have found depth, vulnerability and
liberation from new learning's.
Developing communication skills
along with self awareness and actualisation has been a colourful
period in my life. The most expansive to date.
Inspired by
ACIM, David Deida, Ecart Tolle, Kim Anami and Robert Moore's King
Warrior Magician Lover I am feeling more empowered than I ever have.
In ‘22 I completed Damien Bohlers Fundamentals of Authentic
Relating, and ‘Vulnerable’ mini course. Going in I was
disorientated from a relationship breakout going out my heart was
open and engaged in both listening and expressing.
I have
“initiated” through the New Warrior Training Adventure by Mankind
Project Australia, and regularly attend their mens circle. Gathering
with men has been trans formative and healing for me.
I
have integrated communication styles from NVC, Authentic Relating and
corporate training's to live more authentically and creating more
connection. A contrast from my past, destruction and sabotage.
I
have a strong desire to share my story and growth with others to
model that change is possible, however it only ever comes from
within.
Learning how to communicate with more ownership
and empathy, in conjunction with self awareness offers so many
possibilities. Resulting in a sense of freedom and empathy to
navigate lifes experiences.
These integrated
communication skills and open-heartedness is what has led me to
Conversations with Kyle. A conversational space for individuals and
couples. I am witnessing amazing growth and deep inner standing with
clients. Empowering them to create beautiful relationships and self
confidence. The power of deep listening, and compassion has profound
effects during times of pain and distress.
Currently
enjoying literature by “The Gottmans” in particular How to Fight
Right