SMSF is a lifestyle choice to uncover (violence, abuse, trauma), discover (why it happened and how to heal), and recover (through learning, practicing, failing, trying, achieving, reflecting, and resting). This is a self-led lifelong journey owned by and accountable first and foremost to oneself. Vic came up with this expression based on his journey to stopping family and sexual violence, which spans more than five decades. He continues to uncover, discover and recover to this day, revealing more about himself and his trauma healing, and reinforcing more of the best parts of his life along the way.