Grieving Man

We welcome you men.

We welcome you to a gathering of brotherhood to release, remember, and reroot into our deepest truths.

We welcome all of you, all your wholeness—your dark and your light.

We welcome your grief, rage, and pain; alongside your gratitude, praise, and joy. We welcome your softness and your strength—your tenderness, fears, and shames, alongside your dreams, hopes, and gifts.

We celebrate you in all that you do and all the ways you support those around you. And, we honor you for just being—for having your needs, for feeling your feelings, for embracing your desires—for loving, caring, and being human in all your ways.

More than ever, our families and communities, our land and all its life, our ancestors and descendants, need us. They need us to heal and show up—to rise as heart-centered, embodied, and integrated men in presence with what is here now, in care and devotion to what this world is needing.

In that deep yearning, for what brotherhood can be and do, we invite you to the healing grounds of Sacred Groves for this month's Men’s Grief Lodge.

While this gathering is directly inspired by a grief ritual created by Joanna Macy, we also honor the lineages and wisdom of so many others who have influenced our personal and communal grief work—Malidoma and Sobonfu Somé, Francis Weller, Martín Prechtel, Bayo Akomolafe, and of course our dearest elders in community—Laurence Cole, Thérèse Charvet, Tere Carranza, and many more.

This Men's Grief Lodge will begin in circle at 5pm and end around 10pm "spirit time". After the ritual you will be nourished with a delicious home-cooked feast cooked by Chef Jordan after the ritual too.

Reciprocity: To ensure this work is valued and tended to in sustainable, regenerative ways, we are now asking for an upfront contribution for the space tenders and land to cover the work, food, land upkeep, supplies, and investment of energy, learning, and time spent dedicated to this work. 

Ticketing Tiers: 

• $50 (tier 1) covers supplies/food, land care, and the baseline minimum of the energy invested
• $80 (tier 2) contributes equity for scholarships and those who need access to tier 4
• $120 (tier 3) contributes to the thriving of the facilitators + equity for scholarships/tier 4 
• $20 (tier 4) is our community supported tier (please only choose this if truly in need)
  **Invitation to utilize this tool to determine sliding scale eligibility. 

Alongside the sliding scale tiered ticketing options, to continue making this accessible for everyone, we have scholarships available for those in need. Please email jordan.s.lyon@gmail.com if you're interested. 

Refund Policy: Refunds are available more than 2 weeks from the ritual. There will be no refunds within 2 weeks of the ritual. This policy helps to hold us all accountable and creates some protection for us as facilitators, organizers, and land tenders. If you are not able to attend for whatever reason after registering, you may find someone else to take your spot, please just let us know so we can be in communication with them prior to our meeting. We do not track a waitlist.

Whether you can join us or not, thank you for honoring yourself and showing up in all the ways you do. And if you are feeling this call, we hope you can join us. Thank you!

— Jordan

*This as a cocreated container and we welcome your leadership. As we each continue to learn and grow in our individual space holding skills for this type of community healing, we know that this is a collective effort no matter what and that we can't do it alone. So please let us know if you would like to help us plan, add ingredients, stir the pot and bring your own magic to our cocreated ritual.

**This gathering is for anyone who has been socialized as a man/male, who does or has ever identified as a man/male, or even any one who is simply doing the work to heal their ancestral lineage of those that have identified as either of those.