Pillow Fort - Littles Sanctuary & CGL Play Party

To access the ticket URL, RSVP as interested on the FetLife page and we'll DM you.


Introducing Pillow Fort, a safe space run by littles for littles to really let their inner child out in a cozy and inclusive environment.

Our aim is to create a comfortable and welcoming environment for adult little ones to feel comfortable expressing their little side and to meet new like minded little friends.

We welcome littles, middles, caregivers and anyone else interested in the wholesome side of the CGL and ABDL communities.

Venue
This event will take place in a privately hired venue. Importantly, the venue is not a bar or a BDSM club, it’s a really beautiful private space usually used for dance and artsy events. We’ll occupy an entire floor but for the main activity room, expect a cute fairy-light lit space with soft lighting, fun music, lots of soft blankets. play mats and lots of toys and activities. There will also be a separate sensory friendly quiet space with couches and low lighting for anyone needing to chill out.

The exact location will be disclosed to attendees once vetted but note that it is wheelchair accessible, easily reachable by public transport (a 20 min tram ride from the city).

Activities

There will never be any pressure to join in on any activity you are not comfortable with. If you’d like to curl up in a corner and keep to yourself that is more than welcome.

Activities and toys will be provided for use throughout the night:

• Colouring books with crayons and pencils

• Etch A Sketches

• Kids reading books for story time

• Toddler lego blocks

• Uno and other card games

• Giant jenga, for little ones to practice stacking

• Bubbles

• Twister

There will also be optional group activities of Pass The Parcel and Duck Duck Goose.

Age appropriate snacks will be provided: fairy bread, teddy bear biscuits, apple juice and air-fried dino nuggets.

There will be an adult sized high chair for anyone wanting to feel extra little during snackies.

While toys and snacks will be provided, we welcome and encourage everyone to bring their favourite stuffies, toys or snacks to share or to show off.

Attire
We welcome everyone to express their little side as much as they like. Nappies, onesies, dummies, shortall, pajamas, cute dresses are all of course welcome and encouraged. If that’s not you or you aren’t ready for that, then please don’t be afraid to wear regular streetwear or whatever makes you comfortable.

To best ensure the privacy of all attendees we require that everyone arrive in plain “grown up” / street clothes to enter the venue. Once inside, please let your freak-flag fly high :)

Rules
This event is strictly for adults only. Attendees must be over 18 and ID will be checked upon entry. Note, this is purely for age verification only, we will not be recording anyone’s legal names or personally identifiable information. We recommend using the age verification feature of the VicRoads or Service Victoria apps for maximum privacy.

This is a strictly no-drugs, no-alcohol, no-sex event. Overt BDSM play (e.g. impact-play) is not permitted, Consent is always king. Safe, Sane and Consensual (SSC), consent must be enthusiastically given and is always revocable.

Inclusion is a core principle of our community, all gender, sexual and personal expressions are welcome. Putting others down or making anyone feel uncomfortable will not be tolerated.

No photos. The venue has a lot of mirrors and reflective windows, it can be difficult to take a photograph without accidentally capturing someone else, so as such a blanket “no photos” rule will be enforced.

See our Pillow Fort Event Rules post for detailed rules, but as a general guideline: If it wouldn't be appropriate at a kids play part it is not appropriate here.

If at any point you’d like to clarify rules, or feel uncomfortable please approach one of the event organisers who will be clearly identifiable with an “On Duty” lanyard.

Nappies / Diapers

Nappy wearing and use for number one's / urination is welcome. For the comfort of all attendees, messing / number two’s are not permitted (unless medically necessary of course).

Any diaper changes must take place in private in one of the bathrooms available. Garbage bags and cleaning supplies are available, please clean up after yourself. Dedicated nappy disposal bins will be located in the bathrooms and will be clearly marked. No nappies/diapers are to be disposed of in the venue’s ordinary bins!

Vetting

To ensure the safety, comfort and privacy of all attendees this is a vetted event. Our vetting process is designed to confirm any potential guests are genuine members of the CGL/ABDL community, are safe and will respect the privacy of everyone attending.

After you RSVP as Interested on FetLife we’ll start a process of vetting. If you are someone we know then you might be approved right away, if not we’ll send you a few short questions to understand how you fit into the community. If you’ve been to other community or kink events, are a member of kink discords or have mutual connections with anyone we may know then perfect.

If you are new to engaging in the community, that’s totally okay, we really want you here! Creating a space for you to find the community is a huge motivator for why we are running this event. We’ll try our best to find ways to vet you if even your profile is new and we don’t have any mutual connections. This may involve us hosting online or casual meet ups / munches in vanilla settings in the lead up to the event.

Vetting may take some time, but once completed we’ll send you a FetLife message updating you. If approved, this will include the exact details of the venue and a link to buy your ticket.

FAQs

You can checkout our FAQs here.

If you have any questions about the event please feel free to DM @PillowForEvents