Practical and Sustainable: A D/s Negotiation Workshop with @mr_O

Practical and Sustainable: A D/s Negotiation Workshop with @mr_O

🗓 Saturday, October 17, 2026 | 🕕 6 PM EDT | 12 AM SAST 📍 Online via Let it Reign 🎥 Recording available for 2 weeks

✦ Class Description ✦

In this class we'll discuss the negotiation of practical D/s dynamics, whether for a long-term relationship or a single play scene.

We'll look at ways each partner can express their wants and needs, and how to collaborate in building a framework that works for both. The focus is on creating dynamics that are intentional, functional, and adaptable.

Topics include adding CNC elements, considerations for polyamory, and systems for checking in and renegotiating over time. We'll explore how dynamics can grow and evolve while staying grounded in communication and mutual understanding.

This is a lecture and discussion-based workshop, with space for questions, reflection, and shared perspectives.

The emphasis is on creating sustainable dynamics that balance our fantasies of power exchange with the realities of day-to-day life.

✦ About the Educator ✦

@mr_O is a creative sadist with a love of medical play, a penchant for violent grappling scenes, and a very cute bum. Having spent over two decades as a jiu jitsu competitor and instructor, he has found ways to apply his knowledge of body mechanics to kinky play and shares that in his teaching.

Active in the Canadian BDSM scene since 2005, he regularly puts on workshops internationally as well as locally in the Toronto, Montreal and Ottawa areas on subjects including wrestling, grappling and medical play. With an engineering based background and scientific mind, he is known for continually inventing new devices and ways to hurt people for science. When he's not being nice he can be a bit mean. And vice versa.

Mr O believes strongly that successful scenes start with careful negotiation, and so teaches workshops and private classes on negotiation and consent.

📍 FetLife: https://fetlife.com/mr_O

✦ How to Access Your Class ✦

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