Queer Torah: The Mythology of the Nice Jewish Boy

Each session of this ongoing series explores the intersection of Judaism and queer identity. Putting these two identities in conversation creates tremendous potential for finding meaning and a deeper understanding of each identity. Everyone, regardless of whether or not they hold a queer and/or trans identity, is welcome. 

Who is the nice Jewish boy? When this question was asked on Reddit, the top comment was: "Idk but put it in ur tinder profile and you WILL get laid." The NJB remembers your birthday, cleans up after himself without being asked, and definitely remembers to call his mom. He's everything a nice Jewish girl wants, right? Or maybe he isn't. In this interactive workshop, we will explore the layered history of misogyny and antisemitism that lie beneath this gendered archetype. By unpacking the baggage of the NJB, we will ask, who does this stereotype ultimately serve, and how might we find liberation and beauty in new understandings of Jewish masculinity?

Eli Lurie Sobel brings their love of words and storytelling to their work as an educator to people of all ages. He has taught at numerous institutions on the intersection of LGBTQ+ identity and culture with Jewish identity and practice. Eli lives outside Boston and greatly enjoys their role as the Greater Boston Education & Training Manager at Keshet, where our mission is for LGBTQ+ equality in Jewish life.

Who are these classes for?

Our classes are for everyone—whether you’re brand new to the topic or have been engaging with it for years, we encourage participation from people of all backgrounds, identities, and experience levels. Unless otherwise noted, no prior knowledge or experience is needed. Not sure if a class is for you? Email us at Learning@Lehr.haus!

Why are there tickets at different prices?

Our tickets utilize a Pay-What-You-Can model so attendees can pay a range of prices based on what they are able to pay to allow for greater accessibility. Please select the price point that feels right for you.

Can I eat during class?

While we do not serve food in the study, you are welcome to order and enjoy drinks during class and join us for a meal before or after class. We highly recommend making a reservation if you know you'll be dining with us. Visit www.lehr.haus/reservation to check availability and book a table.