BEHIND THE MASK: Claiming Our Shadows & Kinkifying the Parts We Hide | BRISBANE | DEC 6TH

BEHIND THE MASK

Claiming Our Shadows & Kinkifying the Parts We Hide
BRISBANE | SATURDAY DECEMBER 6th
2PM - 5PM

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Before we enter the night of velvet, seduction, and masked desire - we meet ourselves without the mask.

Behind the Mask is a pre-Masquerade workshop designed to help you explore and transform the parts of yourself that feel jealous, needy, hungry, possessive, insecure, or “too much.”

Instead of suppressing these parts, we invite them closer - and learn to work with them as power, instinct, and erotic intelligence.

Together, we kinkify the shadow - turning shame into presence, jealousy into devotion, fear into turn-on, and vulnerability into deeper connection.

This is somatic, relational, and emotionally erotic work - with clothes on, hearts open, and nervous systems respected.

This is the unmasking before you put your mask on.

WHAT TO EXPECT

– Somatic embodiment & sensation mapping
– Shadow + parts work (IFS-informed)
– Reframing jealousy as territorial devotion
– Shame → power alchemy practices
– Paired witnessing and connection rituals (non-sexual)
– Claiming & being claimed (symbolic, energetic, optional)
– Grounding, clarity & emotional safety for evening play

No nudity.
No sexual touch.
This is emotional, psychological & energetic kink work.

WHO THIS IS FOR

Anyone attending the Kinky Masquerade Ball (or curious about kink spaces) who wants to:

• Feel more confident in desire

• Understand their emotional triggers

• Soften shame around need or intensity

• Strengthen connection with self & others

• Enter the night empowered, grounded, and embodied

Open to singles, couples, throuples, and all gender expressions & relationship styles.

PRACTICALS

Time: 2PM–5PM (QLD time) Doors close at 2.15pm
Location: Wynnum Municipal Hall – 219 Bay Terrace, Wynnum QLD
Wear: Comfortable clothing you can move in.
Bring: Journal + water bottle.
(Optional: Your mask for closing ritual)

TICKETS

Early Bird & Standard Combined (Single Pricing):
We keep it simple.

Individual: $55
Pair: $95
Throuple: $150

Spaces are intentionally limited so the space remains intimate, grounded, and well-held.

COMBO DEAL

Add-on discount applies when attending both:
Behind the Mask (Day Workshop)
+
Kinky Masquerade Ball (Evening Temple Night)

OPEN TO ALL
The Red Temple is a sanctuary for liberation, expression, and embodied belonging. We welcome all beings exactly as they are - with reverence, curiosity, and celebration.

This space is open to:

• All Genders - women, men, transgender, non-binary, genderqueer, genderfluid, agender, and all gender expressions

• All Sexual Orientations - queer, lesbian, gay, bisexual, pansexual, asexual, demisexual, questioning, and beyond

• All Relationship Styles - singles, couples, throuples, polycules, monogamous, open, undefined, If you come in a partnership and do not wish to play with others, that is absolutely fine and celebrated.

• All Bodies & Abilities - including people with visible and invisible disabilities

• All Neurotypes - we welcome neurodivergent folks (ADHD, autism, sensory sensitivity, and more)

• All Experience Levels - from first-timers to seasoned practitioners, this space is for you

• All Spiritual & Cultural Backgrounds - your lineage and path are respected here

• All Kink Expressions - from the curious to the deeply kinky, all flavors are welcome. Come dressed in your leathers, latex, gimp suits, collars, or come as you are.

Whether you're here to witness, to play, to learn, or to explore your edges - you are welcome.

New or unsure? You’re encouraged to ask questions before the event. We’re happy to support you with clarity, reassurance, and care. Reach out anytime.

The Red Temple is a trauma-informed, consent-based, inclusive space rooted in safety, sovereignty, and soulful expression.

All of you is welcome here.

CONSENT & AGREEMENTS

This is a consent-based, trauma-informed, inclusive space. We ask all participants to read and agree to the following principles before entering the Temple.

1. Radical Consent is the Foundation

Every touch, word, look, and interaction requires clear, conscious consent.

Consent must be:

• Freely given

• Reversible

• Informed

• Enthusiastic

• Specific

2. Boundaries are Beautiful

Your “no” is sacred. So is someone else’s. You are encouraged to express your boundaries clearly and respectfully, and to honour others without negotiation or persuasion.

3. You are Your Own Keeper

You are responsible for your own wellbeing. You’re welcome to participate, pause, observe, or step away at any time. There is no pressure to do anything you’re not comfortable with.

4. All Play is Optional

You can be as involved or as still as you choose. Watching is valid. Saying no is holy. Asking is encouraged. You get to decide what kind of night you want to have.

5. Confidentiality is Required

What happens in the Temple stays in the Temple. No photos or videos may be taken. Please refrain from discussing others’ experiences outside the space unless you have explicit permission.

6. Care for the Space & Each Other

Treat the space, facilitators, and each other with respect. This includes cleaning up after yourself, using protection where needed, and checking in on others if you notice a shift.

7. No Intoxication

This is a sober event. Please arrive clear, grounded, and present. You will be turned away if under the influence of drugs or alcohol.

8. Full Inclusion & Respect

This is a welcoming space for all genders, sexualities, expressions, and bodies. Racism, ableism, transphobia, body shaming, or any form of discrimination will not be tolerated.

9. Photography

A professional photographer may capture the event, focusing on the energy and atmosphere. No faces or nudity will be included. If you prefer not to be photographed, you will be given a red armband, and any photos including you will be permanently deleted.

10. If you come with a partner
We make it a point to celebrate your partnership, if you come with someone, you do not have to play with others if you do not want to, this is optional.

11. Voyeurism Welcome
Not sure if you'd like to play? Feel like you may want to watch instead? That's absolutely fine, just sit back and enjoy the show until you are comfortable to join.

12. This event is for consenting adults (18-55).

13. We have the right to refuse entry

We can revoke your ticket for any reason, especially if we have had reports that you haven't abided by consent and boundary guidelines.

14. No refunds for cancellations.

Violation of these agreements may result in being asked to leave the space, without refund.

By attending, you agree to uphold these values, move with integrity, and support the creation of a safe, sovereign, and sexy container for everyone involved.

CONSENT & CHILI RATINGS

To support clarity, comfort, and empowered choice, our events use a Three-Chili System to guide levels of intimacy and play:

🌶 One Chili - Over-the-clothes touch only, nudity allowed
🌶🌶 Two Chilies - Hands allowed under clothes, no oral or penetration
🌶🌶🌶 Three Chilies - Includes oral s𓋹x, but no penetrative acts (vaginal or anal)

All play is opt-in, negotiated, and consent-based. You are encouraged to participate only to the level that feels safe and true for your body. Boundaries are celebrated. Nudity is welcome. Safety is sacred.

This is a temple of sovereign choice. 🔥

ABOUT YOUR FACILITATORS

DANIELA GRACE (Empress Grace) is a certified Counsellor and trained Somatic Psychotherapist, working with couples and individuals in a sex and kink-positive, gender-affirming, body-inclusive approach.

​Daniela has spent many years exploring neo-tantra, conscious kink and sacred sexuality both personally and professionally.

Daniela offers sessions in Melbourne, as well as online.

To book in to see Daniela in Melbourne or Online:
https://www.danielagrace.org

DEBORAH WOLF (Deborah Wolf (Mistress Wolf) offers embodied somatic therapy, somatic sexology, intimacy & kink coaching as well as shamanic therapy.

Her sessions help clients connect body & soul, process trauma, emphasizing on building trust, nervous system regulation, healthy boundaries, & embodied eroticism. 

Deborah offers sessions in Ocean Shores, Tweed heads, and online.
To book in to see Deborah in Tweed Heads and Online: https://www.deborahwolf.com.au