You are invited to step into your hot AF Dominant power aaaand to soften into your silky submissive surrender.

In this experiential workshop, you’ll practice embodying both your Dominant and submissive archetypes, and learn to work with the energies of containment and penetration as tools to create turn-on, depth and delicious surrender.

Wtf is containment?

Containment = down-regulation : firm, grounding, holding energy to melt your sub into a good lil kitten
Penetration = up-regulation : activating, enlivening, intense energy to ignite delicious sensation and turn-on

Honestly the benefit of learning these skills goes way beyond the context of BDSM.

Containment supports safety, intimacy, and trust—in friendships, loverships, and even your relationship with yourself. It creates the feeling of being well held and exquisitely attuned to.

Penetration is the spice and thrill of life—it delivers the excitement, adventure, pain, and delight that we all crave.

When these energies are well balanced, they evoke an exquisite symphony of sensations that just might have you on your knees… begging for more.

Who is this class for?

Anyone curious about stepping deeper into Dominant or submissive archetypes
New and experienced kink players wanting to refine their skills
People who crave more confidence, clarity, and creativity in power play
All genders and all sexual orientations welcome
Solo explorers or partners — come with a partner you’d like to practice with, or arrive solo and pair up with others in class
No prior experience necessary — just a willingness to explore, play, and open to the alchemy of Dominance and submission
Know that you are welcome to opt in or out at your level of comfort — you do you boo! Watching is an excellent form of participation

What to wear

Dress in a way that helps you embody your Dominant or submissive energy and makes you feel hot AF
Think: leather, lingerie, suits, collars, corsets, chest harnesses, boots, silky fabrics, kitty ears — anything that gets you into the vibe you’re excited to explore
Make sure you’re comfortable and can easily sit and move around to handle and be handled
Undress to your level of YES knowing that panties will stay on for the entire evening
Please arrive to the venue in street clothing ~ wear a layer you can easily remove upon arrival or feel free to change on-site

What to bring

Your water bottle
A journal + pen for notes if you’re a verrrry good kitty
Optional (fun to have but not at all necessary): toys, props, or accessories that support your Dom + sub play (ex. floggers, sensation tools, leash, cuffs, rope, etc.)
We recommend eating a light dinner beforehand as we will not be serving snacks and you won’t want to be super hungry or too full
Your dirty mind and kinky spirit

Facilitated by Julia Vieau

At heart, Julia is a devoted submissive—soft, open, and wired for surrender. But in recent years, she’s fallen in love with her inner Daddy Domme: cultivating a presence that’s refined, intentional, and dripping with delicious authority. She now moves fluidly between both poles of power and vulnerability, exploring the exquisite tension where dominance meets devotion.

As a trained Domme and experienced event producer, Julia creates immersive spaces for people to explore embodiment, sensuality, and the unfolding of the mystery. Her work is an invitation into deeper presence—where the erotic becomes a doorway to truth, surrender is celebrated, and power is wielded with tenderness, precision, and attunement. Her desire is to create a culture where more people know how to hold each other—with the depth that awakens trust, and to play—with the penetrating clarity that makes life irresistibly juicy.

Have questions or curiosities about this event?

Get in touch with Julia at julia@exquisiteintimacy.com