Daddy Dom Skills : The Art of Containment + Penetration

You are invited to step into your hot AF Dominant power aaaand to soften into your silky submissive surrender.

In this experiential workshop, you’ll practice embodying both your Dominant and submissive archetypes, and learn to work with the energies of containment and penetration as tools to create turn-on, depth and delicious surrender.

Wtf is containment?

• Containment = down-regulation : firm, grounding, holding energy to melt your sub into a good lil kitten
• Penetration = up-regulation : activating, enlivening, intense energy to ignite delicious sensation and turn-on

Honestly the benefit of learning these skills goes way beyond the context of BDSM.

Containment supports safety, intimacy, and trust—in friendships, loverships, and even your relationship with yourself. It creates the feeling of being well held and exquisitely attuned to.

Penetration is the spice and thrill of life—it delivers the excitement, adventure, pain, and delight that we all crave.

When these energies are well balanced, they evoke an exquisite symphony of sensations that just might have you on your knees… begging for more.

Who is this class for?

• Anyone curious about stepping deeper into Dominant or submissive archetypes
• New and experienced kink players wanting to refine their skills
• People who crave more confidence, clarity, and creativity in power play
• All genders and all sexual orientations welcome
• Solo explorers or partners — come with a partner you’d like to practice with, or arrive solo and pair up with others in class
• No prior experience necessary — just a willingness to explore, play, and open to the alchemy of Dominance and submission
• Know that you are welcome to opt in or out at your level of comfort — you do you boo! Watching is an excellent form of participation 

What to wear

• Dress in a way that helps you embody your Dominant or submissive energy and makes you feel hot AF
• Think: leather, lingerie, suits, collars, corsets, chest harnesses, boots, silky fabrics, kitty ears — anything that gets you into the vibe you’re excited to explore
• Make sure you’re comfortable and can easily sit and move around to handle and be handled
• Undress to your level of YES knowing that panties will stay on for the entire evening
• Please arrive to the venue in street clothing ~ wear a layer you can easily remove upon arrival or feel free to change on-site

What to bring

• Your water bottle
• A journal + pen for notes if you’re a verrrry good kitty
• Optional (fun to have but not at all necessary): toys, props, or accessories that support your Dom + sub play (ex. floggers, sensation tools, leash, cuffs, rope, etc.)
• We recommend eating a light dinner beforehand as we will not be serving snacks and you won’t want to be super hungry or too full
• Your dirty mind and kinky spirit

Facilitated by Julia Vieau

Have questions or curiosities about this event?

Get in touch with Julia at julia@exquisiteintimacy.com