Divergent Discussion: PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance)

Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) is often misunderstood.

It's often mistaken for defiance, laziness, or stubbornness. But for those who live with PDA, it’s not about refusing to do things... it’s about not being able to.

In this powerful episode of Kaboose Divergent Discussions, we explore what PDA really is, how it shows up in everyday life, and what support and understanding can look like. 

Through honest conversation, lived experience, and expert insight, we unpack the challenges, the misconceptions, and the strategies that can make a difference with Karla Pretorius.

🎧 What You’ll Hear:

• What is PDA, really?

• How it intersects with autism and other neurodivergent identities

• Real stories from someone navigating life with PDA

• Supportive approaches from professionals and lived-experience advocates

• Why “can’t, not won’t” is more than just a phrase — it’s a lens of compassion

Whether you're PDA yourself, supporting someone who is, or just curious to learn, this Divergent Discussions will deepen your understanding and empathy.