Join us for the last Queer As Death Collective of 2025, where we will include reflections of the year and hopes for 2026 as well as discuss death and dying topics that need to be brought up.

For example:-

How has death affected you this year?
Where is your grief sitting? How is it showing up?
How are we going to prepare ourselves for the holiday cheer events? Does our grief play a role here?
How are we protecting ourselves? How are we helping our communities?

Death Cafe and Conversations
This is a group-directed discussion around death and dying, where we can bring our questions and share our experiences. Just so you know, this is not a grief or peer support group and we aren't counsellors.

Queer As Death Collective are

not-for-profit
endeavour to create an accessible, respectful and confidential space
have no intention of leading people to any conclusion, product or course of action

Queers only?

Allies are welcome to attend with the understanding that our community of focus is intersectional - LGBTIQA+, First Nations, culturally diverse and those who experience disability. Through our events, we seek to identify any unmet needs within our community to direct our advocacy and education work.

How our death cafes usually roll:

Meet and greet
5min Meditation (participation optional)
Introduction
Break into smaller groups for yarning circles
Half time break
Return to or swap yarning circles
Group share
Finish

Keeping yourself safe

Our facilitators will introduce themselves at the start of the sharing circle, ie name, pronouns, why they are there and ask you to do the same. DON'T share anything if it feels uncomfortable for you, such as age, sexuality, job, where you live, spiritual beliefs etc.

If you need spaces to specifically talk about your mental health, suicidal ideation or self-harm please see our list of resources

What do we talk about?
Whatever you bring to the group! It's pretty vast here's some things we've spoken about in the past

Overcoming fears / living in acceptance of our death and the death of others
Protecting your identity and gender after death.
What events have made us more "Death Aware"
Do I really have to write a dam will! or Advanced care directive?
Cultural differences in death practices and experiences
Near Death Experiences
Navigating our grief, queer grief and disenfranchised grief
Fantasising on the perfect farewell party.
General bagging out of the patriarchy and the joy of watching its eventual death.

Diversity and equality in our conversations is key for these discussions.

NECCHi East Coburg Accessibility Info
One level house
Main entrance off the main road, down Glengyle Street
Street parking only.
One disability car park outside the front of the building on Glengyle Street.
A nature strip then a double footpath small step down or wheelchaire over naturestrip to path from car onto nature strip
Ramp access to the front door.
Door handle - left hand turn to open. Door opens inwards and to the left
Internal hallways and doorways a narrow fit. Fits most wheelchairs
One accessible toilet with baby change table
Low pile carpet throughout except for Sunroom (floorboards) and kitchen (tiled)