How to Host a Play Party

Curious about stepping into a s3x-positive world with your friends—but unsure how to start?

Excited by the idea of play spaces, but worried about safety, boundaries, or how to even bring it up?

You’re not alone—and you don’t have to figure it out from scratch.

Whether you’re brand new to the scene or have dipped your toes into kink or s3x-positive events, this workshop is designed to help you reclaim your autonomy around body, sex, and play—while learning how to create safe, empowering containers for yourself and others.

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For the past five years, I’ve been practicing ethical non-monogamy and, over the last three, have been regularly hosting private play parties within my community. Through trial, error, and transformation, I’ve developed a grounded approach to cultivating spaces that are safe, s3xy, and full of consent.Now, I’m sharing the tools I wish I had when I started.

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In this 2-hour interactive workshop, we’ll explore:
• How to invite people with clarity, consent & confidence
• Safety & cleanliness protocols that protect everyone involved
• What meaningful aftercare looks like—and why it matters
• Navigating couples privilege with care and awareness
• The emotional, logistical, and energetic foundations of successful play spaces

This is a conversation-based experience—there will be room for Q&A, community dialogue, and honest reflection. There is no nudity or physical touch involved; this is a talk-based workshop only.

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Who it’s for:This space is for anyone feeling curious about s3x-positive or kink spaces—whether you’re just beginning to explore, wanting to deepen your understanding, or simply interested in hearing real stories and insights from within the scene.Whether you’re considering hosting one day, exploring your relationship to autonomy and play, or just want to listen and learn in a supportive environment—this workshop welcomes you. R18

Facilitated by:
Traeh Song – Lead facilitator of The Intimacy Initiative & Founder of Bless You, Fvck Me. Ethical non-monogamist and experienced host of community play parties and intimacy spaces.

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Limited to 30 attendees

Tickets:
$30 Early Bird (until May 6)
$40 General Admission
Have questions before you commit?
Email traehsong@gmail.com — I’m happy to chat.

Photo Credit Jeffrey Packard