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How to [Really] Connect: An Unchatter Journey

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This is the Unchatter experience you’ve been waiting for! We’ve been brewing up a special HOW-TO series of three events designed to lead you step-by-step into a world of deeper connection with yourself and other beautiful humans.

If you’re keen to be a little kinder to yourself, create dynamite friendships, and communicate more courageously than ever before, this is the space to learn.

Something we believe deeply at Unchatter is that meaningful connection shouldn’t be a one-off event; it’s a living, breathing practice to take to the kitchen table, the office, and even the supermarket check-out line. This is where we put the best of our connection goodness to work in real life!

As with every event we host, you’ll be thoughtfully led, gently challenged, and playfully taught with psychological safety as the backdrop for everything we do.

Here's a taste of what’s in store.

How to Be Yourself on 18 June 

This experience will help you connect with the most important person in your life: yourself. You’ll get a serious dose of authenticity, the most potent connection elixir out there. If we aren’t being ourselves, we aren’t really connecting.

You'll learn:

  • Some fascinating research on self-compassion and why being kind to yourself is the key to better relationships, goal achievement, and other good stuff
  • What holds us back from being ourselves and how to befriend those fears in a transformative way
  • What we actually need and how to express it

How to Make [Real] Friends on 23 July 

If you find yourself longing for those deep, authentic, I-see-you kinds of relationships and aren’t sure how to create them, we’ve got you covered.

You’ll learn:

  • How to throw your own “belonging party!”
  • Rituals of connection that will build, deepen, and maintain beautiful relationships
  • The value of ‘community care’ and how to cultivate it in your own life

How to Be Brave on 24 September

This is courageous connection in action where we tackle all the baddies of real communication, like conflict, boundaries, and saying no. It just might make you squirm – and it will definitely make you grow!

You’ll learn:

  • All about boundaries: setting them, holding them, and feeling good about it
  • The beauty and necessity of [appropriate] vulnerability
  • How to say what you really mean
  • What it looks like to tackle conflict in a way that jives with your own personality

What's Included

  • Life-changing connection
  • Fabulous food + drinks (non-alcoholic)


Can I come to just one of the events?

    Sure thing. You’re welcome to attend one or all of the workshops! You can buy individual tickets for each event at $30 apiece, or get a cheeky discount by purchasing a ticket bundle for $75, which includes all three events. (Bundled tickets are non-refundable.) Either way, you’re guaranteed to leave with a grin – and probably some shiny new mates. (You know, the real kind!)

    I’ve never been to a traditional Unchatter connection experience before. Can I still come to the workshop(s)?

      Of course! We lay the groundwork for safe and meaningful connection at every event. Whether you’ve been to fifty Unchatter events or none, you’ll fit right in.

      What should I bring?

        Curiosity, kindness, and an open heart.

        Do I need to print my ticket?

          Just bring the email verification you received with the QR code. (Not to worry, we can still check you in manually if you forget!)

          What if I'm an introvert who hates parties?

          No sweat! We've tailored every part of the evening to make you feel like you belong, whether you love all-night ragers or quiet corners. We'll be keeping a special eye out for folks who might be feeling awkward. The whole point of this event is meaningful connection, and we'll make sure you get it!

          What if I'm an extrovert who's a pro at this connection stuff?

          Fabulous! The real magic happens when we've got a beautiful blend of personalities and connection styles.

          Do I need to register or do you accept walk-ins on the day of the event?

          Please register in advance, as we don't take walk-ins or sales at the door. We want you to have an experience that feels rich and meaningful, so we limit the number of attendees to make it an intimate gathering. This also allows us to reduce the time spent on check-in and jump right into the juicy stuff!

          When should I arrive?

          Doors open at 5:45. Please arrive in plenty of time to grab a beverage, get settled, and be ready to kick things off by 6:15. It's important to attend at the beginning when we set the stage for the evening.

          Kind Words

          “I just want to say that I have NEVER attended an event that was that inspiring!”

          "Thank you for an incredible evening! Loved everything about it and feeling so grateful to be part of the magic."

          "I absolutely LOVED Unchatter! I've been telling people about it since the event. It was a very unique event and completely achieved the goal of being able to connect at a deeper level."

          "I loved the scientific explanation of the exercises and what happened in the body with what we were doing. I could feel a lot of love and preparation and dedication behind the experience. The setting, the areas, and the delicious snacks made me feel comfortable and well looked after."

          "Amazing evening! Still feeling so connected."

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          Can't wait to connect with you!

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          Refunds are available up to 7 days prior to the event