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MELBOURNE Kink Emergencies

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In BDSM it’s not if something is going to go wrong, it’s when. All BDSM is a form of edgeplay - we’re engaging in peak activities that have the potential for harm, and we all want to find ways to minimise unintentional harms. This workshop is all about adding an additional layer to your negotiations, harm minimization techniques, how to deal with mistakes ETHICALLY as well as emotional / psychological triage when things go wrong.

*This course is suitable for sexuality professionals as well as lifestyle explorers looking to make their practices safer!

Level:beginners to advanced
Partner not required

Time: 180 mins

Contents: Sharing knowledge on best practices, practical safety, prevention, physical & psychological components to play and when emergencies occur. Workshopping a variety of situations and best practices in handling kink emergencies ethically and effectively through compassion, communication and preparation. 

- Examining consent practices and acknowledging the variety of frameworks
- Learning to connect with yourself, not just with others
- Becoming a safer player / practitioner
- Exercises and techniques for self and co-regulation

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Eve and Lillith are a romantic, artistic and business partnership and have created beautiful content and performances together. Both sex workers, lifestyle kinksters and committed to erotic exploration and a life rich in experience, they have led ritual and BDSM event spaces separately and cooperatively and conspire constantly to dance along the edges of light and dark, sensuality and sadism, sex and magic.

Sai Jaiden Lillith is a Melbourne based gender fluid prodom/me, escort, activist, educator, creator of visual erotica, artist and Shibari addict. Known for their gorgeous and creative rope work and performances, love of exploring taboo and transgression, Sai has taught workshops at Sexpo, OzKinkFest, sex worker groups and trained numerous private students.
@jaidenlillith // Instagram@saijaidenlillithart / @saijaidenlillith // Facebook @Sai Jaiden Lillith // Official

Eve X is a Shamanatrix, Bizarrlady and flesh artist based in Melbourne. An erotic guide, pornographer and activist, Eve integrates esoteric arts into experiences of ecstasy and ordeal. A polyamorous, pansexual, genderfluid switch, Eve is fascinated by power, desire and shame, and the hidden wisdoms of the body.
Twitter - @theevex // Instagram - @the_eve_x // Facebook - @theevexproject // Official Website -

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