Think back to a time you really wanted connection with someone, and things didn't go the way you'd hoped.

Maybe you go to social events, keen to make new friends. Maybe you show up to a singles gathering. Or maybe you're in a relationship now, and something just feels off.

There's a closeness you want. And a tension you can't quite name. A pull toward someone, with no clear sense of how to bridge the gap.

Whatever's happening, the odds are you've been here before. More than once. That's the thing about it: it's a pattern, and it's been quietly running the show in your connections for years.

Maybe you wait to be approached rather than approach. Maybe you reach for the ones who keep you guessing and overlook the ones who are right there. Maybe you open up fast, or hold back and stay safe. Maybe you talk yourself out of someone before you've said a word. Or maybe you're in a relationship, trying to make it work but butting up against challenge after confusing challenge. None of it is random, and none of it means you're bad at this. It's a pattern, one that made sense once, yet most of us can't see our own.

In this 90-minute online workshop, we'll bring yours into the light together. Through a gentle guided exercise, you'll start to see the real reason you're drawn to who you're drawn to, what you actually need to feel loved and safe, and where the pattern first came from, so you can finally choose differently instead of running the same script again.

Warm, practical inner work. Not a lecture, not theory. Come as you are.

You'll walk away with:

A clear picture of the pattern that's been shaping your relationships
An understanding of where it came from, and why it once made sense
A first, doable step toward showing up differently

Who it's for: singles ready to meet someone from a more grounded place, and people in relationships who want to understand themselves and connect more honestly. Bring a friend along too, the work lands either way.

Your host:

Sarah Rus
Certified Relationship & Leadership Coach
"I help capable, driven people create love that feels aligned, with more ease and grace."

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