Amber Ella-Vatrix

Amber Ella-Vatrix is an intimacy educator, Neuro Transformation Therapy (NTT) practitioner, embodiment facilitator, and creative edge-walker with over eight years of experience designing workshops, immersive experiences, and transformational events across Australia.

As the founder of The Erotic Edge, Amber creates spaces where psychology, presence, embodiment, and conscious exploration come together. Her work helps people build deeper relationships with themselves, their partners, and their capacity for trust, communication, confidence, and authentic expression.

Blending nervous system awareness, embodied practices, tantric principles, conscious power exchange, and trauma-informed facilitation, Amber offers experiences that are both practical and deeply experiential. Participants leave with skills they can integrate into everyday relationships as well as more intentional explorations of intimacy and connection.

Known for combining warmth, playfulness, and integrity, Amber creates environments where people feel safe to explore curiosity, boundaries, leadership, vulnerability, and choice without pressure or expectation. Every offering is grounded in consent, agency, self-responsibility, and meaningful human connection.

Popular workshops and experiences include

Embodied Power Exchange
Boundaries & Consent Foundations
Embodiment & Nervous System Awareness
Conscious Kink & The Erotic Edge
Sacred Spanking
Sensational & Playful Predicaments
Devotional Dominance & Sacred Submission
Introduction to Tantric Kink
Rock ‘n’ Role Play
Setting the Scene for Sweet Surrender
F#@k Like a Dragon
Rope Rendezvous: Shibari as a Language of Trust

Amber also co-hosts the much-loved Rope Rendezvous series, a growing community dedicated to exploring rope as a language of communication, trust, creativity, and embodied connection.

In 2026, The Erotic Edge continues to expand with

New coaching and transformational programs informed by Neuro Transformation Therapy (NTT)
Expanded workshops and immersive weekend experiences in Bellingen
Bound & Beloved, a retreat for couples seeking deeper intimacy and connection
Increased offerings throughout Sydney and beyond
Private coaching and small-group experiences across multiple locations

At the heart of Amber’s work is a simple belief:

Pleasure is your birthright.

Whether guiding someone through a conversation, a workshop, or a transformational coaching journey, Amber’s intention is to help people relate more honestly with themselves, communicate more courageously with others, and create relationships built on presence, choice, and authentic connection.

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