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MELBOURNE Finding Your Dominance

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Event description

Power, Sex, Death.

Consensual power play can be incredibly hot, deliciously deep and transformative. Exploring it can open up pathways within ourselves and spaces that we didn’t know we had within us. But it can be hard to navigate this framework! How do we enter a new relationship dynamic with someone you already know? How do we overcome those voices of doubt inside? How do we find our authentic power?

A workshop combining discussion, meditations and pragmatic techniques to find and express your dominance, with the tools to engage ethically; and with both the acknowledgement of the potential for harm as well as the techniques to minimise and resolve.

Content Warning: This workshop may contain mentions of trauma and other challenging topics which may arise during the discussion portions of the workshop. We won’t shy away from staring into the depths and acknowledging what lies within.


WHEN? 6-9pm, Tuesday 26 March - Ticket sales close on Monday at 7pm.

WHERE? VICTORIA / Private Preston venue close to PT, exact address provided to ticket holders the day before the event with details of parking and transport. 


We have added a a pay-what-you-can/want ticket - to help support the community and those who may not be able to afford the full price ticket of $80, this is an option where you can pay what you can. There is no upper limit on this ticket, so if you feel like subsidising those who purchase 'lower priced tickets, or giving a little extra to the facilitator to support us, this is your option!

We believe in both accessibility for the community, as well as making sure our facilitators are paid appropriately for their erotic / intellectual labours, so this is our solution to hold space for both with a minimum of fuss!

Enjoy this social experiment, and we'd love your feedback. 


There is one step up to get to the workshop space, clear path all the way!

Please enquire to if you have any more accessibility questions.


Please email for access to community tickets.

5% of ticket sales are donated to charitable organisations. We are currently contributing to Medecins Sans Frontiers and Children’s Ground.


Sai Jaiden Lillith is a Melbourne based gender fluid prodom/me, escort, activist, educator, creator of visual erotica, artist and Shibari addict. Known for their gorgeous and creative rope work and performances, love of exploring taboo and transgression, Sai has taught workshops at Sexpo, OzKinkFest, sex worker groups and trained numerous private students.

Twitter - @jaidenlillith // Instagram - @saijaidenlillithart / @saijaidenlillith // Facebook - @Sai Jaiden Lillith // Official Website -

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