Poly Power Exchange: D/s Dynamics & Ethical Non-Monogamy

Establishing and maintaining Power Exchange dynamics between two people can be challenging. Stir in multiple partners and you have a potent mixture that can rock your world - or blow up in your face. Traditional polyamory and ethical non-monogamy (ENM) can clash with the hierarchies inherent in Dominance & submission. What if you have multiple partners but want a dynamic with only one? What if someone wants to collar your partner? Or you’re juggling several submissives?

We will review concepts of polyamory & ENM, foundations of power exchange, and examine how ENM and D/s mix (or don’t). With relationship tools, real-life examples, and his own extensive experience, Sir Panda will engage with pitfalls and best practices - including topics such as direct and “stepped” authority, protocols for metamours, and poly agency in multiple D/s dynamics.

Presenter Bio

Sir Panda (He/Him) is a Dominant and sadist who lives his busy polyamorous and kinky life in the Seattle area with his wife and and his collared life partner. He has been a kink educator since he originated the Passport Program at the Center for Sex Positive Culture in 2011, teaching consent and BDSM basics to new members. In 2015, he founded the View From the Top dominant discussion group, now hosted online on the fourth Tuesday of the month. Sir Panda has served in a variety of roles in the kink community, including event host for Arborea Falls and the CSPC, BDSM Lead for Fantasy Forrest Events, Program Lead for KinkFest 2023, and will be a presenter for LeatherReign 2025. He is active on FetLife and Discord as SirPandaSeattle.

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