Questions About Kink We Are Afraid to Ask with @KinkyLifeCoach

This class is now free thanks to a sponsorship!

🗓 Saturday, June 13, 2026 | 🕕 6 PM SAST | 12 PM EDT | 5 PM BST 📍 Online via Let it Reign 🎥 Recording available for 2 weeks on Patreon

✦ Class Description ✦

This class is about the questions you want to ask but are scared to do so. That feeling you get when something doesn't sit right in your kink life but it seems to be working for everyone else.

What should the goal of a scene be? Who leads a scene? Why might the safe word system fail, and is there another option? How can you tell if someone can be trusted? What if consent is not enough? How can we deal with shame?

It's an interactive class that invites questions from the audience, and questions can be supplied if needed.

✦ About the Educator ✦

Experienced BDSM educator John Pendal joins us all the way from England, UK.

In 2003 John became the 25th person to win the annual International Mr Leather contest in Chicago. Since then he has travelled around the world leading workshops, giving speeches, hosting events and performing kinky stand-up comedy.

Amongst others, John has taught BDSM workshops at Beyond Leather in Fort Lauderdale, Darklands in Antwerp, Down and Dirty in Melbourne Australia, HunCon in Budapest, Kinkferansen in Oslo, Kinkfest in London, Leather Camp in Wichita, Lupercalia in Canada, Minnesota Leather Pride, Mr Leatherman Toronto, Palm Springs Leather Pride, Rome BDSM Conference, SINSations in Leather, SM Bergen Norway, Spring in the South in Atlanta, Tribal Fire in Oklahoma, and for twelve consecutive years at Thunder in the Mountains in Denver.

He spent lockdown completing a diploma in life coaching and two qualifications in First Aid for Mental Health. He now works online with English-speaking clients anywhere in the world, both directly and as an Associate Coach with Thriving Autistic.

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