Sexual Adulting 101

A 6-Week Women's Circle for Rebel Lovers

This is for 12 women who are ready to do a deep dive into a new way of loving and relating.

Are you ready to bust out of the boring box and paint your relationship life in vibrant, sexy colors?

You've felt that quiet whisper that there might be more, more authenticity in your connections, more clarity about what you actually want, more freedom to love and desire on your own terms. But creating breakthroughs around our most intimate relationships? That's some of the hardest work we'll ever do.

Why is it so damn difficult?

Because our sexual attraction and attachment patterns are wired deep, they are connected to our earliest bonds, our wounds, and for many of us (1 in 6 women in the US), sexual trauma. It's no wonder we find ourselves repeating patterns we swore we'd never repeat again.

This 6-week women's circle will ground you in your personal herstory, create meaningful bonds with other women in your community, and give you real, embodied skills to make healthier, more aligned choices in your intimate life.

This circle is for you if:

You're tired of repeating the same relationship patterns
You want to understand why you attach the way you do
You're ready to get crystal clear on what you actually want
You crave real community with other women doing this work
You're ready to become a more conscious, empowered adult in your intimate life

Follow your wild heart. Let's do this together.

[Please note: Trans women are women and more than welcome to this workshop. If you are non-binary but feel the confines of being socialized as a woman then this workshop will be relevant. You are welcome to chat with me to see if this will be a good fit and if you feel your gender expression will be honored. https://calendly.com/mishabonaventura/15-minute]

What We'll Explore Together

Each week includes:

Weekly 4-hour in-person gathering (Sundays 2-6pm)
A buddy for support and accountability
Weekly inquiry homework to deepen your practice
A Rebel Lover Workbook

Plus:

3 1-hour sessions of 1:1 Coaching with Misha
Optional online (recorded) guest talks with expert practitioners

Week 1: Herstories & Attachment Patterns

Getting real about where we've been and how we learned to love. Exploring attachment styles and early bonding patterns that still show up in your bed and your heart.

Week 2: Rewriting Your Story & Getting Clear

What do you actually want? Not what you think you should want, not what your last partner wanted—what lights YOU up? Crafting clarity and designing boundaries that nourish you.

Week 3: End People Pleasing, Empathy & Secure Communication

Learning to speak your truth without apology and listen with your whole heart. Practicing the kind of communication that builds security instead of anxiety.

Week 4: Negotiation, Safer Sex Practices & Relationship Design

From consent to STI conversations to choosing your relationship structures consciously. The practical skills for being a sexually responsible adult who gets their needs met.

Week 5: Navigating Triggers, Conflict & Repair

What happens when things get messy? Learning to navigate conflict, understand your triggers, practice reconciliation, and offer (or withhold) forgiveness with intention.

Week 6: Integration, Celebration & Next Steps

Honoring what you've learned, celebrating how far you've come, and mapping out your path forward with your new skills and community.

Investment & Details

Cost: $495
Registration Deadline: By November 7th
Space is limited to maintain intimacy and depth

No late entry once the circle begins. This protects the container we're building together.

If you can't join because of lack of funds, please reach out.

Questions or ready to chat? Email Misha.Bonaventura@gmail.com or book a conversation: https://calendly.com/mishabonaventura/15-minute

About Your Guide

Misha Bonaventura is a relationship coach and Somatica trained who specializes in conflict resolution, communication, and supporting people in creating sustainable, authentic connections.

As the producer of SoulPlay and former co-producer of Bonobo Network (2017-2024), Misha has spent more than a decade supporting sex-positive communities and helping pleasure seekers worldwide create more of what they want for themselves. She's known for her innovative policy work around accountability and consent, and her gift for holding space where difficult conversations become transformative ones.

Her journey began in the early 2000s when she asked herself, "What would I do if I could do anything?" That one question catalyzed a completely new life path of following her wild heart—from swimming with dolphins in Hawaii to Burning Man to deep empathy practice to exploring open relationships. Each adventure taught her something new about authentic living and full self-expression.

Now she guides others on their own journeys, drawing from attachment theory, Non-violent Communication, Somatica, Luminous Institute, Coaching Training Institute, self-parenting, parts work, and mindfulness practices. Plus, she's got a wealth of resources on hand for your continued growth.