Speed Mating Night 1 (Magandjin, Brisbane) presented by MELT.

Created in collaboration with Melt Festival, a celebration of Queer arts, culture and community. Where connection is part of the experience, and a new encounter can lead somewhere unexpected.

Step into a moment of curiosity and see where it takes you.

You arrive thinking you’re in control. But not this time.

Time slows when you meet someone new. A few minutes, a new face, a shared giggle - then the rhythm of the evening carries you around the room. You never quite know who you’ll meet, what little moment you might share, or where a conversation might take you.

Because that’s what community can be: the connections that happen when you say yes to the opportunity to connect, be present, and see who you might meet.

So go with it. Notice the glances. Savour the moments. Treasure every hello.

Let the night unfold, one conversation and one little surprise at a time. From this moment to the next, keep discovering, connecting and celebrating together, sharing the shows, the stories, the dancing and all the Queer joy that makes Melt what it is.

I’m so glad I met you.

Introduction

A vibrant speed mating event designed for connection. There are limited spots available, so seize the opportunity!

Our goal for 2026 is simple: to continue creating a fun, loving, and inclusive third space where you can be challenged, find community, and build meaningful connections. If you’re new here, Third Rodeo’s name is inspired by the Third Place Theory, the idea that true, authentic connections are forged in a third environment outside of home and work. The word "Rodeo" comes from the phrase, "not my first rodeo," symbolising confidence.

The more our community chooks attend our events, the more they feel comfortable in expressing their identity and greeting new people.

So, saddle up and put yourself out there, you never know what fate or destiny has in store. Perhaps tonight is the night you were meant to meet someone special.

Enjoy yourself.

Event Details

7.00 PM - 11.00 PM 𓃗

Come join us on the evening of Wednesday, 21 October, at The Cave Inn, Woolloongabba. It is a casual, but charming atmosphere, privately booked out space for you to socialise among the lesbian/queer/trans community. Grab your bloody shiraz or lemon lime bitters from the bar and turn strangers into dearest companions. 

Event Breakdown

We'll greet ya at the door, tick ya name off and give you a name card. 

7.00 PM - 8.00PM

★ Name Game: You will be given a card with someone else's name on it. It is your mission to find this person through greeting new people and asking for their names. Note - once you ask for someone's name, you should exchange questions on the back. This creates chatter and encourages everyone to meet. The connections are boundless!

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8.00PM - 9.00PM

★ Speed Mating: You can be expected to go on at least 5 friend dates. 

- Always introduce your name & pronouns 

- Questions are fun and silly! Nothing too serious here!

9.00PM - 11.00PM

★ More social gathering.

★ Call me cards: Keep in contact with each other. Write your details down on one of the 'Call me Cards' displayed around the venue. It's a lovely gesture, an old fashion trick that works like charm! 

Your lovely host: Anna (she/her).

Magandjin based film photographer working my way towards a visual arts degree. Chronic sad gay music listener, consuming as much queer media as possible. Currently yearning for summer somewhere in Northern Italy. Always immersing myself in queer joy and making connections wherever I go. I take so much pride in our community, our history and our stories - queer was always here.

Additional Information

This is operating at a licensed venue. Please do not BYO. This event is designed for persons 18+. You will be exposed to loud chatter, background music and low level lighting. The venue is accessible with accessible friendly bathrooms and no stairs to enter or watch the stage. Accessibility specifics like low seating can be arranged via contacting The Cave Inn.

There are a range of gluten free, vegan and vegetarian food options along with low and no alcohol beverage options to be purchased.

Photography will be present, although, if you wish to not have your photograph taken, let us know.

At our event, we are committed to fostering a safe and respectful environment for everyone. We do not tolerate any form of bullying or harassment. If you or someone else feels uncomfortable at any point, please do not hesitate to speak with our trained venue staff or the host of the evening. Rest assured, all reports will be handled discreetly and confidentially to ensure your safety and privacy. Your comfort and well-being are our top priorities.

Third Rodeo Background

Starting back in 2023!

At Third Rodeo, we believe in creating a warm and inviting space for the Lesbian and Queer community to thrive. Our events are designed specifically for individuals in their 20s and up, providing a dedicated environment where you can make meaningful connections.

Our philosophy is simple. We are your Third home. 

Whether you come solo or with friends, or if its your First or Third Rodeo, you’ll find our atmosphere relaxed, charming, and just a little bit cheeky! We’re all about bringing people together, and we’re thrilled to have hosted successful events in Naarm/Melbourne, Gadigal Land/Sydney, Magandjin/Brisbane, Boorloo/Perth and Kaurna Country/Adelaide. Many of my own beautiful queer friendships have blossomed from these gatherings, and I can’t wait for you to experience the same.

I know it can be intimidating to show up alone, but trust me, you’re not alone in that feeling. Everyone is here for the same reason: to connect and find their community. You’ll quickly find that our crowd is warm, friendly, and welcoming!

Thank you for supporting our Lesbian/Non-Binary led small business. Your encouragement means the world to us, and we adore each and every one of you. We can’t wait to see you at our next event!

With pride,
TR