How to Host a Play Party

Drawing from years of hands-on experience navigating the vibrant landscape of consent focused, heart-centered play parties, I've distilled practical wisdom into a dynamic monthly workshop: "How to Host a Play Party." Forget theoretical approaches – this is about real-world application, the lessons learned in the field, and the insights that have allowed me to consistently cultivate safe, consensual, and exhilarating spaces within my own community.

Consider this more than a single workshop; it's an evolving exploration of play party culture. Each month, we'll delve into distinct facets, from the nuances of invitation and consent to the often-overlooked essentials of aftercare and navigating power dynamics. You'll have the opportunity to actively develop your own hosting ethos and strengthen your practical skills through guided discussions and exercises. Because each workshop will uncover new territory, attending multiple sessions offers a richer, more comprehensive understanding of this multifaceted world.

Having journeyed through the intricacies of hosting and facilitating these gatherings, I now offer my expertise as a consultant, providing personalized support to those looking to confidently and ethically navigate this exciting terrain.

Join the "How to Host a Play Party" monthly workshop if you're:

• Intrigued by the possibilities of sex-positive connection and seeking grounded, experience-based guidance on how to bring this into your social circles.
• Ready to move beyond curiosity and gain tangible tools for creating play spaces rooted in safety, clear boundaries, and mutual empowerment.
• Seeking to learn from someone who has walked the path, navigated the challenges, and discovered effective strategies through direct involvement.

In each interactive 2-hour session, we'll unpack crucial elements such as:

• Crafting invitations that embody clarity, respect, and enthusiastic consent.
• Implementing robust safety and cleanliness protocols that foster trust and well-being for everyone.
• Understanding the profound impact of meaningful aftercare and how to provide it effectively.
• Skillfully navigating the complexities of couples privilege & inherent power dynamics with sensitivity and awareness.
• Building the essential emotional, logistical, and energetic foundations for thriving play spaces.

This is a space for open dialogue, where your questions are welcomed, community insights are valued, and honest reflection is encouraged. Please note that these sessions are talk-based, with no nudity or physical touch involved.

Who this is for: Anyone curious about or actively engaging in sex-positive and kink spaces. Whether you're taking your first steps, aiming to deepen your understanding, or simply seeking authentic perspectives from within the community, you'll find value here. This is for those contemplating hosting, exploring their own autonomy in relation to play, or wanting to learn in a supportive environment. (R18)

Facilitated by: Traeh Song – A self-trained expert with over five years of immersion in ethical non-monogamy and four years of consistent experience hosting private play parties. As the lead facilitator of The Intimacy Initiative and Founder of Bless You, Fuck Me, I bring a wealth of practical knowledge to guide you.

Limited to 20 attendees

 $30 Early Bird Investment, $35 Full Investment

Have questions or interested in private consultation? Email traehsong@gmail.com – I'm here to support you.

Photo Credit Jeffrey Packard