So You Fucked Up, Now What: How To Handle Mistakes In Edge Play with @AncillaL

🗓 Sunday, March 8, 2026
🕓 4:30 PM SAST | 9:30 AM EST | 6:30 AM PST
📍 Online via Let it Reign

✦ Class Description ✦

So You Fucked Up, Now What with @AncillaL explores how to handle mistakes that occur in edge play, from the immediate aftermath to long term accountability and repair.

This class examines both the emotional and practical aspects of error management. It looks at how to navigate guilt, responsibility, and harm in ways that promote honesty, growth, and care for all involved.

We will cover:
• Immediate management
• Attitudes regarding mistakes
• Handling guilt and fallout
• Accountability protocols
• Negotiating with mistakes in mind
• Types of mistakes tops and bottoms make
• Longer term management
• Incorporating mistakes into risk profiles
• Distinguishing mistakes from violations
• Distinguishing mistakes from patterns of neglect

This is a space for reflection, learning, and rebuilding trust after things go wrong, grounded in compassion and risk awareness.

✦ About the Instructor ✦

@AncillaL (she/her) is an erotic author, kink educator, and fetish artist who runs Ancillary Kink Support, an organisation focused on bottom led education for the deliciously perverted.

Her work centers around accountability, communication, and creative risk taking within BDSM. Ancilla’s teaching and writing invite participants to approach kink as a language of curiosity and connection, grounded in emotional intelligence and technical awareness.

🌐 Website: www.ancillarykink.com
📍 Fetlife: @AncillaL
📸 Instagram: @ancillarykinksupport

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