Working with Failure: Playing When Failure is a Limit with @littlest_ducky
Event description
✦ Class Description ✦
Failure hits hard. It impacts attachment, identity, expectation, and trust — both with ourselves and those we play with.
For many kinksters, failure becomes the actual edge.
This class explores how to acknowledge, negotiate, process, and play with failure in scenes and dynamics without collapsing into shame or disconnection.
We will explore:
• Why failure feels threatening in kink contexts
• Emotional, identity, and role-based responses to failure
• How to build resilience and repair around “getting it wrong”
• Negotiating the possibility of failure openly
• Reframing failure as sensation, surrender, information, and intimacy
• When failure can be transformative
• When failure is a sign to stop
This class is not about denying discomfort.
It is about staying in your body, in your self, and in your relationships when failure happens.
✦ About the Instructor ✦
@littlest_ducky (any/all) identifies as a bottom leaning vers, little, edge player, submissive, and instigator masochist among other roles.
Based in Atlanta, Georgia, ducky has been part of the southeast kink community since 2018 and began teaching independently in 2022.
Their teaching experience includes conventions, local groups, and personalized one-on-one education.
Please see their FetLife page for accountability information and community notes.
📍 Fetlife: @littlest_ducky
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